Influential Literature

These are books that moved/inspired me, and shaken me to my soul.  Feel free to add your own in the comments section below.  I am curious as to what has inspired you and why.

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronte – describes a love so passionate, Heathcliff cries for the spirit of his love to haunt him.
“I lingered round them, under that benign sky; watched the moths fluttering among the heath, and hare-bells; listened to the soft wind breathing through the grass; and wondered how any one could ever imagine unquiet slumbers for the sleepers in that quiet earth.” 
-For me, this is one of the most beautiful sentences written in the English language.
 
The Count of Monte Cristo by Alexandre Dumas – how hope, perseverance, and vision outlast everything. 
There is neither happiness nor misery in the world; there is only the comparison of one state with another, nothing more. He who has felt the deepest grief is best able to experience supreme happiness. We must have felt what it is to die, … that we may appreciate the enjoyments of life.  Live, then, and be happy, beloved children of my heart, and never forget, that until the day God will deign to reveal the future to man, all human wisdom is contained in these two words, ‘Wait and Hope.” 
The Call of the Wild and White Fang by Jack London both about man fighting against the harshness of nature but alongside the oldest human companionship of time – wolves, and dogs. 
From The Call of the Wild
When the long winter nights come on and the wolves follow their meat into the lower valleys, he may be seen running at the head of the pack through the pale moonlight or glimmering borealis, leaping gigantic above his fellows, his great throat a-bellow as he sings a song of the younger world, which is the song of the pack.” 
 
A Mid-Summer Night’s Dream by Shakespeare – imagination at its best; a comic yet moral story of love and merriment, and living life to the fullest.
“If we shadows have offended,/ Think but this and all is mended,/ That you have but slumber’d here/ While these visions did appear./ And this weak and idle theme,/ No more yielding but a dream, /Gentles do not reprehend: / If you pardon we will mend./ Else the Puck a liar call. / Give me your hands, if we be friends, / And Robin shall restore amends.”
The Last of the Mohicans by James Feinmore Cooper – a “man’s” book, about Uncas, the last of his Indian tribe, and Hawkeye, his white settler friend as they travel the wilderness of 18th century America.
My day has been too long. In the morning I saw the sons of Unamis happy and strong; 
and yet, before the night has come, have I lived to see the last warrior of the wise race of the Mohicans.” 
The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand.  A story about modern true love, and following your vision no matter the sacrifices.
To sell your soul is the easiest thing in the world. That’s what everybody does every hour of his life. If I asked you to keep your soul – would you understand why that’s much harder?
The Gold Coast by Nelson DeMille.  A story from the 1990s about materialism, happiness, love, genuineness, passion, and struggle for meaning when all material/financial needs are met.
And there was a time, you know, not so long ago, as recently as my own childhood in fact, when everyone believed in the future and eagerly awaited it or rushed to meet it. But now nearly everyone I know or used to know is trying to slow the speed of the world as the future starts to look more and more like someplace you don’t want to be.”

NAPLES

NAPLES

ANYTHING GOES in this city.  Drink beer in the street, smoke a doob, etc.

I’ve been told (and I’ve seen it) that the only real industry in Naples is the wedding business, because the young people get married young and have a kid as early as possible in order to live off the government.

Naples is also a beautiful city, don’t get me wrong.  But the only reason people stop by there is because a short ferry ride away is the famed Amalfi Coast – Sorrento, Pompeii/Vesuvius, Capri, etc.  I highly urge the same tactic.

Note on safety – watch the movie “Gomorrah” (link below) and stick to the “touristy” areas.  Yes, the food is not great thanks to the high influx of tourists.  Train station safety may be iffy.  Bull-rushing your way through crowds with your luggage may be the safest idea.  If you have small children you’ll have to choose between losing them or your luggage.  Enjoy.

http://https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=egtdYTuRKto

TRENTO

TRENTO

Trento is located in the north east corner of Italy – close to the Austria border and about 3 hours north west from Venice.

It is great because it is incredibly picturesque – nestled in the Italian Alps, and is really not crowded or filled with tourists.  That means better quality meals at affordable prices.  Be sure to visit the Castello di Buon Consiglio and order the local happy hour drink “hugo” in the main city square – overlooking the 15th century cathedral.

 

VENICE

VENICE

To be honest – I’ve only spent half a day on Venice.  There is obviously a lot to do.  I suggest just walking around and getting lost.  Obviously at some point make sure you wander your way towards St. Mark’s Square, the Ponte di Rialto (pictured), and the Ponte di Sospiri (the famous “bridge of sighs” – the walkway which prisoners headed to the cells had to walk across and from which they glimpsed their last look on the outside world).

Unfortunately no restaurant recommendations, as the city is flooded with tourists.  More tourists = worse food served (since majority of American/British tourists don’t know/care about authentic food if it wacked them upside the head).

Another tidbit – regardless of the hype, Venice IS a romantic city.  Visiting it alone will be OK, but you may be lonely.  Visiting with friends does it no justice.  Go with someone you care about/have intimate feelings for – the experience will be all the more better.

MILAN

MILAN

MILAN

Upon arriving in Malpensa (Milan’s International Airport), you can either take the train or the bus (around 10 euro) to the Stazione Centrale (or central train station).  When exiting this magnificent and huge building, the main street of the city, Via Argentina, will be directly ahead of you yet still a kilometer or so away.  This Via Argentina is the street to go down to access the most of Milan’s attractions, namely its Piazza (Square) and Duomo (Cathedral).

*Tip* You can find fairly inexpensive lodging all around the train station, so if you choose to stay near the station expect to walk a while to the Piazza, Duomo and other attractions which are a few kilometers away – Milan is certainly wide and spread apart.  As for public transportation I’ve never taken it so I cannot comment on it.

You can view the original of Da Vinci’s “L’Ultima Cena” (the famed “Last Supper”) at the Church of St. Mary of the Rose.  Just be sure to reserve a spot for viewing a day or half-day at least in advance.  Da Vinci’s masterpiece is huge – I think 25′ by 10′ or something close (look it up if you’re a nitpicker) and the details exposed on each apostle’s facial expressions is simply stunning.  The Dude was truly from a different planet.

*Tip* On dress and fashion in Milan – everyone there looks like they stepped off the Givenchy runway.  I know the typical American dress is sneakers and jeans – and yes, you will stand out.  Invest a little in some respectable clothing while visiting, but make sure you wear comfortable shoes.

Place to eat:

Il Carpaccio

Address: via Lazzaro Palazzi, 19

For those of you who care about eating “authentically”, this restaurant is the traditional “hole-in-the-wall” local place with inexpensive,  authentic Italian food, house wine and grappa, etc.  Make a reservation for Friday/Saturday evenings.  If you are staying at a hotel close to the Stazione Centrale, this place is within walking distance.

ITALY

ITALY

A few points about Italy before I get into the specifics, as I’ve traveled there 6x in the last two years (about 2-3 weeks duration of stay each time), and also had a brief relationship with an Italian woman.

(1).  When dining out – order the HOUSE WINE.  It is the cheapest and most likely the best tasting wine on the menu.  Don’t fall for the expensive crap.  The more local the place the better the house wine will be.  Yes they will bring it to you in a carafe – that’s how you know it was actually made in-house.

(2). North and South Italians do not really like each other – the north think south Italians are lazy, and live off the government (which rings true because the south does get most of the tourism and nice weather) and the south thinks the north Italians are cold and unfriendly (because of their hard-work ethic – most of Italy’s industries are headquartered in the north).  Decide for yourself.  In my experience – they are all nice.  Maybe people from the South are indeed a bit lazy…

(3).  Espressos are good for any time of the day, even right before bed.

(4). Happy hour drink is Spritz Aperol – a combination of prosecco and orange liqueur, definitely a girls drink but absolutely fantastic.  I’d have at least two/day when there.

(5). Grappa, or the strong Italian brandy, is to be drunk after dinner on an incredibly full stomach.  What it does is reduce bloating.  Normally, if you are out to eat somewhere, the host may offer it to you AFTER you’ve paid the check and are getting ready to leave (i.e. on the house).  Otherwise you’ll have to order it, but who cares.  Do it if you’ve eaten a big meal (and chances are you will – duh you’re in Italy).

(6). Never mind the economic figures (as an economist, I can tell you that technically they are in a “recession” and that things are supposed to be terrible, blah blah blah).  Italian people are warm, friendly, and incredibly cultural.  They really do care about their next meal and/or espresso, and could not care less about their next paycheck or lack thereof.  Theirs is a true culture – that of the importance of being around friends, family, as well as good food and drink and merry spirits.  Screw the unemployment statistics.

GETTING THERE

Emirates Airlines has fairly cheap round trip flights from New York’s JFK to Milan’s Malpensa (MXP).   Doesn’t hurt that they also serve free alcohol in coach and that their stewardesses are above-average looking foreigners from various countries around the world.   But anyways.

*Just a quick side-note on airlines – from USA to Europe and back I’ve flown Emirates, Delta, AirBerlin, LOT Polish, Austrian Air, Swiss Air, KLM Dutch, and AlItalia.  Above and beyond the most comfortable flights have been on Emirates and Delta (I’m rating comfort based on seat space, cost, food and drink – free alcohol in coach – and their in-flight entertainment system – movies, music, etc.)  Additionally, in excessive turbulence, Emirates acts incredibly strict (“everyone take your seats now!”) whereas on a bumpy Delta flight the captain making the announcement literally sounded as he had just awoken from a nap and went to state quote…hi folks, so yeah, there’s really nothing we can do, so uh, just hang on.  See you. end quote.

TRAVELS

In the travels section folks I will try to highlight specific, and perhaps out-of-the-way tidbits of hopefully not too useless info that you can take with you when you travel to these select places.  I’ll give brief run-downs of each country/city I’ve been in and suggest things to do/see and places to eat.

Visiting foreign cities during the summer is not the most pleasant experience – tons of people and heat and humidity.  Aim to go during off-peak/season times, and when the weather is cooler.  It is better to go into the country/rural/nature parts in the summer – save the major cities for spring or the fall.

 

DISCLAIMER – these are my own opinions/information based on my own experiences in each foreign city.  You may have heard different from friends or from your tourist guide book.  No matter.  Take it or leave it.

 

YOUR Beautiful Life

YOUR Beautiful Life

Hello to all the readers out there in the wide world. I am a former teacher – currently unemployed (more or less by choice), in order to focus on my own personal goals.  This blog is one of them.

My hope is that you, the reader, will take away whatever you can from these pieces.  Please do not hesitate to comment or ask me any questions you may have.

To you and yours –
la bella vita.